Then a strange thing happened. I got a “serious” girlfriend and made the mistake of moving in with her. The problem is that this girl had a low drive and didn’t enjoy actual intercourse as much as previous chicks. Sometimes, after fucking her for 5 or 6 minutes, she’d basically ask me to wrap it up. A lot of the time she wasn’t even interested. I started having LESS actual sex and jerking it to porn a lot more. A lot. To make matters worse, our sex wasn’t that good, so I’d find myself jerking it right AFTER having sex with her.

• Dutch Dominate Singles

I’ve tried to figure this out for some time, and I’m thankful you put this thoughtful post here. Actually sometimes watching some good porn gets me all horny and motivated to go out. Especially when I had a busy week at work and no time for social interactions. But I think it is as with the rest of pickup skills training – the field is better than being alone at home!

• Dutch Baby

Hey guys, I’m 20 years old, have been masturbating since I was 11 pretty much every day so I think I’ve also been addicted for the past 9 years and I suspect this could be a contribution to my low levels of motivation, energy, confidence, etc. However I do want to try this theory because I’ve also had suspicions that it may work.

• Dutch Blacks

I never had a problem with approaches, but I found myself getting too cutesy and “clownish”–focused on entertaining, rather than on an actual goal. Now I exude a masculine sexuality when I transact with girls, with the same amount of charm, and they respond differently. I went to a social dance last week (on Day 3) and I was fondling and touching and laughing with a group of three girls. I had the energy and drive to keep all those balls in the air. My target was all over me, despite learning later on that she had a boyfriend at home.

• Dutch insta Girls

I’m aiming for the seven-day cycle, but I find there’s a consistent arc, depending on the day. Day 1 is whatever. Days 2, 3, 4 are the best. I feel manly, strong, and motivated to exercise. Great concentration. Smooth in my approaches. Days 5 and 6 start getting difficult. I spend more time distracted by sex and plotting my moves. My glaring at chicks starts getting creepy and TOO lustful. But this may change with more practice.

• Loveawake